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Between the Sheets – Naughty Church Humor

Posted: March 22, 2023 in Naughty Humor, Naughty Humor, The Man Who is a Christian
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Sometimes, no matter how spiritual you are… you can get bored during the hymns or sermon.

Years ago a friend shared this naughty little trick with me to liven things up…at least for you.

Whatever song is being sung at the moment… just say the title of the song in your head… and add “between the sheets”.

Amazing Grace… between the sheets.

How Great thou Are… between the sheets.

Love Lifted Me…. between the sheets.

And one of my favs… The King is Coming… between the sheets!

And if it’s already passed into the Sermon portion of the service… well those hymnals are just right in front of you… hundreds of amazing inspired songs just waiting for… between the sheets.

Just if you get busted… you didn’t hear anything so irreverent from Lover of Passion here on WordPress.


Therefore, (according to the facts presented in my last post) —Homosexuals can NEVER participate in The Act of Marriage and thus can never consummate the physical act of Marriage.

Homosexuality is a sexual act but it can never be The Act of Sex (also called the Act of Marriage).

I’ve steered clear of most discussions about homosexuality. It’s widely discussed in a wide plethora of avenues and outlets. The Bible is clear in both Old and New Testaments about homosexuality being a sin.

The Bible isn’t as clear about other topics such as masturbation or nudity, or even polygamy, but it’s very clear that homosexuality is always considered a sin.

22 “ ‘Do not have sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman; that is detestable.

23 “ ‘Do not have sexual relations with an animal and defile yourself with it. A woman must not present herself to an animal to have sexual relations with it; that is a perversion.

24 “ ‘Do not defile yourselves in any of these ways, because this is how the nations that I am going to drive out before you became defiled.

—–Leviticus 18:22-24

18The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of people, who suppress the truth by their wickedness,
19 since what may be known about God is plain to them, because God has made it plain to them.
20 For since the creation of the world God’s invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse.
21 For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened.
22 Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools
23 and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like a mortal human being and birds and animals and reptiles.
24 Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another.
25 They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.
26 Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones.
27 In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.
28 Furthermore, just as they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, so God gave them over to a depraved mind, so that they do what ought not to be done.
29 They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips,
30 slanderers, God-haters, insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they disobey their parents;
31 they have no understanding, no fidelity, no love, no mercy.
32 Although they know God’s righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them.

—–Romans 1:18-32

I included the longer passage from Romans because I believe the entire passage describes not only God’s feelings towards homosexuality but also His heartbreak and subsequent anger in turning over a people (like the nations of the West), who no longer like to retain the knowledge of God anymore —-over to this hard hearted prideful worldview that we see and witness unfolding before us each and every day.

Most all the once Christian nations have kicked Jesus out of our schools, our governments, our homes and our hearts… and we are receiving the just “fruit” of what we have sown… As Billy Graham once quoted “We have sown the wind and we will reap the whirlwind”.

With the Bible being clear about the subject of homosexuality, I found it interesting several years ago while thinking about the topic of the last blog post. When I was first learning about what the Bible does and does not say about sex and nudity and passion and pleasure, I learned where the “line” is.

Most young people who are Christians, want to know just where the actual line between sin and passion lies! Can we make out with our girlfriend? Is copping a feel a sin? What about stuff like blow jobs, going down on your girlfriend, or even anal sex. We find this incredible beautiful world of sex, romance and passion and we want desperately to know where the line actually is.

Some of us, like myself, read I Kissed Dating Goodbye ” by the now infidel Joshua Harris. I spent five years trying to “court” instead of date. I don’t regret those years of focusing on Jesus and going to the best Bible School ever, The Brownsville Revival School of Ministry in 2000-2002. However after leaving Bible School and desiring to get married… I was really lost with how to practice courtship , when neither of my parents really “got” the premise. After five years of trying to practice courtship, I reverted back to dating.

At the same time I was just coming to the conclusions written here on this blog. I wish I could say that I retained the same purify dating as I had done practicing courtship. I didn’t know where the lines were and in my ignorance, I crossed several lines into sin.

The simple version of where the lines are with being physical in dating, is that anything that involves the contact of your penis or your vagina is a sexual act. I know that leaves groping bums and boobs, but I can’t assert that touching those non-sexual areas to be sinful. I believe there’s a pretty clear line that our masculine and feminine sex organs are definitely the actual “no fly zones”.

If you’re man handling your boyfriend’s cock or balls ladies, that an area God reserved to be touched by his actual wife alone. And the same goes for the reverse gentlemen. That’s our sexual body parts and touching those sexual body parts is strictly forbidden, except for spouses. Any touching or intentionally manipulating of the penis or vagina constitutes “a sexual act”. Any sexual act falls under the wide umbrella of acts considered to be fornication in Scripture.

All sexual sins can be summed up in two to three categories.

Let’s start with the two categories from the Old Testament: sinful sexual acts and sinfully commiting the Act of Sex.

All physical sexual acts would always include: bestiality, homosexuality, incest, rape, as well as ALL sexual acts that are committed with someone that you are not married to. Touching someone’s penis or vagina with ANY part of your own body, orally sucking, licking or manipulation of someone else’s penis or vagina, and anal sex – any of these acts or any others that I failed to mention that are committed with anyone that you are not Biblically married to would constitute a “sexual act”.

The second kind of sexual sin listed in the Old Testament is committing the Act of Sex (also called the Act of Marriage) with anyone other than your husband or wife is called adultery.

So in the Old Testament we are told to refrain from all sexual acts AND the Act of Marriage with anyone with whom we are not married to.

In the New Testament, Jesus tells us in the Sermon on the Mount, to not even imagine committing ANY sexual act OR the Act of Marriage with anyone with whom we are not married to. Jesus took the physical restrictions and told us not only to refrain from doing them in the flesh but also in our own minds. This is called sexual lust, when we imagine doing a sexual act or the Act of Marriage with anyone who isn’t our betrothed before Almighty God. The Old Testament clean/unclean laws were done away with in the New Testament, but in one of the only ways that Jesus “upped” the moral laws; He forbids us from even imagining doing these sexual sins.

So although you could list many sexual sins, they all fall neatly into three basic categories: Sexual Acts, Committing the Act of Marriage out of Wedlock, and The Act of Lusting (committing those physical sexual sins in our thoughts).

Going back to our title; because homosexuality is a sexual act and can NEVER be The Act of Marriage (interchangeablely called the Act of Sex), NO homosexuals can EVER consummate a marriage as it’s meant to be consummated. The Act of Marriage requires a penis AND a vagina. It’s simple biology (though people today seem offended by the most simple and basic human biology today).

This isn’t to say that homosexual’s “vows” at the mock weddings of today are valid either. Marriage is an institution created by God Himself and He sets the moral rules as well as the physical rules of matrimony. Satan can only pervert what God creates. Satan can NEVER create some new and good. He can only twist and pervert what IS.

Foolish people can call homosexual “marriage” valid and true, but in the realm of Authority, the highest Authority gets to make the rules. God is Always the Ultimate Authority and His Revealed Word, The Holy Bible, is His Final and Unalterable Revelation of His Law and Will. The Bible never once honors the perversion of homosexuality and is not silent on the topic as He is on many other topics. He revealed His Will what defines marriage and what marriage is in this temporal life. These millions of people saying otherwise is utter pride, which oddly enough is the first reason given in the book of Ezekiel as to why God Himself destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah.

Look, this was the iniquity of your sister Sodom: She and her daughter had pride, fullness of food, and abundance of idleness; neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy. And they were haughty and committed abomination before Me; therefore I took them away as I saw fit.

Ezekiel 16:49-50

So besides going back to telling a little of my story of learning the difference between sexual acts and the Act of Marriage and reiterating what lust is: We can clearly see that even though things are referred to as “gay sex”, all homosexual acts are “sexual acts” and can never be The Act of Sex or Marriage. Besides knowing that homosexuals can never engage in the Act of Marriage, we also logically know why that they can never fulfill the Act of Marriage, which if never performed after an actual wedding, those involved can never consummate the Marriage before God and mankind. Not only are homosexual “wedding” vows unattainable in the sight of a Holy and Loving God, but the second requirement for a marriage to be consummated in a Holy physical act in the sight of God can NEVER be consummated. The Act of Marriage always requires a penis AND a vagina.

The “champions” of perversion and gross immorality and pride can call a pig in a wedding dress a bride or groom until Jesus returns for His Bride, The Church, BUT calling a homosexual “marriage” real or legitimate in any way will NEVER make it real or legitimate in even the tiniest detail. Like calling men, “she” or “her” will never change biology or the Truth, though everyone on the planet agrees or disagrees. God’s Word is the Truth and it’s precious, unalterable and Holy.






The Act of Sex

I find there’s a good deal of confusion between the Act of Marriage or the Act of Sex and “sexual acts”.

The Act of Sex is simply when a man and a woman have vaginal sex. This is the actual Act of Sex. Without this act of the man penetrating his wife with his penis, No marriage is complete. If a couple doesn’t consummate their marriage, usually on the wedding night, then it is possible to have a marriage annulled – like the ceremony never happened.

Many cultures would wait outside the room, after a wedding, and check the sheets to verify (by the breaking of the hymen and subsequent bleeding) that the act of Marriage had taken place.

Technically, a true marriage covenant, requires BOTH a public ceremony of lifelong commitment before God and man AND The Act of Marriage (vaginal intercourse). This Act is only possible between One Man and One Woman.

This seems to be a prominent source of confusion in our day. However, the Act of Sex (or Marriage) is always considered the joining together of the penis and the vagina. Whereas sexual acts include all other forms of touching genitals with another person or animal (bestiality…gross!).

Whereas, sexual acts are ANY kind of healthy OR sinful sexual act that involves a penis or a vagina to contact any other human (or even animal). Sexual acts include oral sex, simply touching the sexual organ of another human being, anal sex, hand jobs, as well as the always deviant homosexual acts, bestiality, molestation, rape, etc.

This is a very important distinction and very important to remember.

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I think most of us have entertained the thought of being naked in public at some time or another in our lives.

In response to one of the questions asked regarding my last post, someone thankfully brought us this real life human topic.

I remember entertaining the idea much more when I was around my late teens and early twenties. What would it be like to “naked and unashamed”? Just talking from the heart for a minute, I think all of us would enjoy the thrill and rush of being naked and truly seen. I believe we feel this way, because we were created with this deep knowing that nudity and nakedness is somewhat similar to the idea of God’s Glory in the Bible…

I know this may “sound” blasphemous at first, but God created mankind in the Garden of Eden, truly naked and unashamed. It was only when sin entered the picture that God Himself killed a deer (or similar creature) and gave Adam and Eve clothes.

I know I may not sound like a traditional or evangelical Christian because of my views that I express on this blog, but I am (by traditional/evangelical I mean that I take the Bible simply as it is written and develop my fundamental worldview based exclusively on what the Bible DOES and DOES NOT say). So in general Christian theology, once sin entered the picture through our first mother and father’s original sin, this world and everything in it drastically changed. Now we are laden with a disposition to sin carried down through our bloodline from Adam. As born again Christians, God gives us a new heart, but according to passages like Romans 7, we still wrestle with a unnatural proclivity to sin.

Yet, our hearts remember Eden…

Imagine what sounds like a fantasy world, where in the beginning, God created all things Good and His original plan for our race, was to walk naked and unashamed. Each delighting in one another’s glory, and each one of us being delighted in.

Our first father’s sin, and our sin, gums up the works however. Still in our hearts we carry the weight of Glory.

Nudism is, I believe an attempt to reclaim some of our original world….However, we still have this ravenous wolf inside us called sin or iniquity…

What are your thoughts?

We all know that sometimes there are “ideals” that are unattainable in this life…but sometimes because of that we go the other direction and try to kill our hearts in the cradle.

From what I can gather and understand from the Bible, nudity is not a sin, nor enjoying nudity. It’s part of our original design. Our sexuality, our masculinity…our femininity is precious. Each of us know somewhere in our hearts that that which we conceal is sacred and beautiful.

I’ve never visited a nudist colony or beach and I don’t know if I ever will, but just being naked with other people in and of itself is not a sin as far as I can see in the Bible. God commanded the prophet Isaiah to go around buck naked for around 2-3 years. God does not command us to commit sin and He doesn’t even tempt us to sin

James 1:13

“Let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: for God cannot be tempted with evil, neither tempteth he any man:”

I don’t want to take the time to explain this next statement, but I do believe, that sexual sin is when we touch someone’s else’s vagina or penis, and that lust is imagining someone touching our genitals or us touching someone else with our genitals, and vice versa. Maybe the natural pubic hairline is a pretty good indicator of the official genital area.

So if nudism involves any sort of touching of genitalia, whether purposely or accidentally through an act like hugging, it is sinful. If everyone keeps their “private parts” private and sacred, I do believe that there is nothing technically wrong with nudism among adults.

No one went around touching Isaiah’s penis/scrotum. I do believe in “look but don’t touch”. God didn’t command him to touch his penis to anyone or to let anyone touch him there. It is sacred and reserved for your own enjoyment and the enjoyment of your spouse.

“Why I don’t frequent nudist camps”

Personally, once I realize where the “line” is; where purity ends and impurity begins…I believe in using wisdom, especially with such powerful currents as sexuality. If you know where sin “begins”, I advice, and I believe God commends using wisdom. I’ve discovered the hard way, that not using wisdom can quickly lead into plain old sin.

If you have a draw a “perforated” line, even one step outside where you actually cross the solid line into sin, I believe that is using wisdom.

Here’s one of my successes, then I’ll share with you one of my sins that I’m not proud of.

Once I got married, I realized that I didn’t know what to do with the opposite sex exactly. Things changed. I had women who were friends, but now I was married. I know adultery is a sin, and if possible, I’d really like to be faithful in this area. My dad was a serial philanderer and I saw the pain in my Mother’s eyes for decades. One of my greatest heroes, King David, made one of his worst mistakes due to the sin of adultery with Uriah’s wife, Bathsheeba.

So I set a few steps between me and adultery. One step I placed is not spending time alone with another woman who is not family. If you don’t spend time alone…it’s kind of hard to have the opportunities to commit adultery. I’m probably not going to rip of the clothes of some man’s wife in a moment of wreckless passion, if her husband or her friend is there.

I have talked to women on the phone, and enjoy varying levels of friendship with other women. I enjoy other’s women’s company in the presence of other people.

The other deterrent or extra line or step that I’ve used to protect myself and my marriage, is that if anyone does make a move on me or my wife, that person is no longer welcome in our lives. We’ve both had a couple people make a move on both of us…and oddly we both had one same sex friend each who tried to come on to us. Those people are no longer welcome in our lives. I want people around me who want to protect me and my heart and most importantly my relationship with Christ and my marriage.

You see, I’ve crossed both those “perforated” lines in my life. Recently, I spent time alone with a woman that I’ve known since childhood. Honestly, it felt really good… But I felt convicted and apologized to her, for not only not protecting my heart and marriage, but also for not protecting her heart and marriage. In my flesh, I’d still like to hang out with other women, especially because my marriage has been very painful, but I’m trying to keep myself on the right sight of these steps of wisdom.

When I hung out with this woman, we didn’t sin, but it exponentially increased the possibility to sinning against God and against His Word. But having that perforated line a step or two away from the actual sin, gives me a warning in my heart that I’m getting close to blowing it sexually.

The same with the extra step back towards the people who have made a move on me. I’m a sinful man. It’s only my God’s grace and love that He saved me and and I want to honor Him more than anyone or anything. Continuing friendships with people who have crossed the line and made actual advances towards me, are like leaving bridges in my life to bad places that some part of me wants to visit. By tearing down those bridges of relationship, I’m putting a step between me and sin. In my weakest moments or in the moments when my marriage isn’t fulfilling, it would be easy to be drawn towards people who have showed sexual or romantic attraction towards me. I can find all kinds of ways to justify it. I can easily lay blame, because my wife has a sinful side just like I do.

So…so far…having these two steps away from the actual sin of adultery, has really helped me stay true to God and true to my wife (even when she is not acting Godly towards me). Plus it’s nice knowing that if I do cross those lines of wisdom that I’ve drawn several steps away from the actual sin of adultery, that I have not yet sinned! It’s sort of a relief when I have crossed those lines of safety and wisdom, knowing that although I’ve crossed a line that I set up to protect my walk with God and my marriage and my heart as well, that even though I crossed those lines, they aren’t the actual lines (the solid line) where I actually enter into sin. It gives me a wake up call, without fully blowing it. It makes me feel more solid and safe inside knowing where the actual line is, and then have a few lines that aren’t actual sin (but sound an alarm to let me know that I”m getting close).

I say all that to say that personally, even though I don’t see the sin in nudism among adults (no touching genitals), I guess not visiting nudism camps is another line for me personally in my life. Hanging around with a bunch of other naked people, sounds really tempting to me personally. I feel like sin would be “at the door” as God spoke to Cain, “and it desires to have you”.

That being said, although I highly recommend to setting some perforated lines several steps away from something that would be actual sin (the solid line), I don’t judge others for having different lines than I do. One of my friends and her husband used to frequent a local nudist camp.

Does that make sense to you?

Lastly, just because I already mentioned a time that I blew it and sinned, when I was dating…I was right in the middle of researching all the things that this blog entails and discusses. I was questioning most all my beliefs and trying to see what the Bible actually says and doesn’t say. I was questioning, where does sex begin? Is it just penetration? Do hand jobs and blow jobs count, etc. My guard was a little down because I was actively trying to understand where the line is…however, my sins are my own, and my choice.

I was raised up in church and had been heavily indoctrinated (in the good sense of the word, because it basically just means “taught” or “instructed”) to save sex for marriage. I barely dated. There was a movement in the late nineties to return to something called courtship instead of dating (spending excessing time alone with someone of the opposite sex). I had restrained myself from dating and focused on God, until my early twenties.

Long story short, I met my wife and because I didn’t believe that nudity was a sin, I allowed us to make out quite heavily in her home or in my care, ect. We spent a very great deal of time alone and with a clothing optional policy, we spend time naked around one another. It took about a week to completely blow it and all the years that I had spent restricting dating. Even though I believe seeing each other naked was not a sin, doing so without using any wisdom, precautions or accountability, proved to be the epitome of foolishness. It’s one of my regrets to this day. Despite the culture, I still know first because the Bible commands it, but also from my heart, that our story would have been much richer and much more beautiful to have enjoyed a pure wedding and a pure honeymoon night. Instead, I sinned against my Savior, my own heart, and at the time my future spouse. After serving God for about 11 years then, I sinned just like King David. I had thrown all wisdom to the wind and armed only with my belief that nudity was not a sin, entered a situation doomed to failure and remorse.

For me, not visiting a nudist camp or beach is based on a personal conviction that it would be far too easy , even accidentally, to have various people’s private parts way too close to my own with not a shred of wisdom to protect my relationship with my Jesus and my wife.

If any of you have experiences at nudist camps, I’d be interested to know. Since our friend who visited them was a woman, I didn’t feel quite comfortable asking her some of these kinds of details. I do know that if anyone’s genitals are touching other or being touched that that is a solid line of sin.

Feel free to let me hear back from you. I’d love to know your personal convictions and personal experiences and your relationship with Jesus.

Thanks so much to everyone who asked question and brought up great ideas for topics!

The End


I don’t think that I’ve ever asked this before…but if you have any questions about sex, sexuality, The Bible and Sexuality, or pretty much anything…please feel free to comment and let me know. I’d really love to hear from you.


 

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This one is just a query.

Being raised in Church, I have been part of denominational churches and non-denominational. At one time, I had a difficult time understanding denominational churches. So many denominations have come into existence over the smallest differences of opinion. For instance, I was raised Pentecostal and two of the most prominent Pentecostal churches are The Assemblies of God (AoG) and The Church of God (CoG). Both of these denominations believe in three separate works of Grace. Number one is the most obvious to any evangelical church, Salvation. Number two is sanctification, which is basically were you become completely sold out to Jesus, and lose the major desire to commit sin. Number three is the Baptism of the Holy Spirit with the physical evidence of speaking in tongues.  To my knowledge the only difference in these two wonderful denominations is that they slightly disagree on the second work of Grace, Sanctification (which basically means “set apart”). The AoG believes that sanctification is gradual. Another words, after you become a Christian, a gradual work of Grace conducted by the Holy Spirit within our hearts, slowly delivers us from the ability to sin so easily (you don’t want to sin any longer, you want Jesus and more of Jesus). The CoG believes that Sanctification is the same result but you get there differently. They believe that it is an instantaneous work of the Holy Spirit. Much like the 1st and 3rd work of Grace, you could actually remember the moment when you were sanctified.

At one time I was leaning against denominations in general because of such minute differences. Over the last few years, I’ve come to understand the need of denominations, I believe. Although I currently attend a non-denominational congregation, I believe denominations serve a vital role. It’s not a word you hear often anymore, but I believe they act as a defense against heresy. Even their existence acts as a bulwark against an invasion of false teachings. Even though I love both denominational and non-denominational churches, I believe we would all be like sitting ducks without denominational churches existing.

You may be asking, how does any of this relate to Christians enjoying pornography??? Well the Bible is our standard, our road map, our compass for living. Then I believe the denominations serve as a sort of bulwark. Even though most denominations disagree over small details (Armenianism vs. Calvinism/ Pentecostal vs. Cessation / Submersion vs. Sprinkling/ Saturdays vs. Sundays/ etc.), all denominations are founded to uphold the truth of God’s Word. To one extent they do divide Christians as a whole, but to another extent they unify Christians with similar beliefs. If their were no denominations, I believe heresies would be running ever more rampant. Just as the Bible is our 1st defense against deception, denominations are our 2nd defense. When you visit a Southern Baptist church, you know all the main beliefs of the church you are visiting. The same goes for each of the major denominations.

The main objection that I have to denominations is the disunity they  cause. Often we can spend all our time fighting other Christians of other denominations, than spend that time in prayer, fasting, witnessing, reading the Word, and thus fighting our true enemy the devil.

Anyway, I don’t mean to make this post meticulous. I just wondered if one day you think we’ll have denominations leading the way into knowing the truth about Biblical sexuality? Wouldn’t it be wonderful to know that a certain denomination or group of denominations had Biblical views of nudity, masturbation, and pornography? Since this is one area that is widespread met with condemnation although there is a complete and utter lack of Biblical evidence against it, it would be wonderful to have a set of core beliefs (a denomination and doctrinal creed) that a Christian man or woman could know that attending this particular denomination meant adhering to not only the basics doctrines found in all evangelical denominations, but also a fresh set of doctrines dealing with nudity, masturbation, and pornography strongly founded in the Word.

As it is right now, I’ve been writing this blog for about 5 years, and I’ve met all kinds of people. I’ve met Christians like myself who have examined the Bible and spent time in prayer and realized as I have, that the Bible is not against viewing nudity, masturbation, or enjoying pornography that involves one man and one woman. The Bible is against adultery, bestiality, sex outside of marriage (including anal, oral, vaginal, touching of the genitalia, etc.) homosexuality, incest, rape, molestation, lust (imagining yourself committing any of the sexual sins) and so on. Then there are some things, though not condemned, are simply unwise, like public nudity, etc.

Unfortunately, I’ve also met people who want to view everything that is sexual as clean and wholesome. Many of them visit the site as well, but they want to live by their own rules and reject Biblical authority. Most of these people want to use the current humanist philosophy that if a sexual act is consensual and not illegal (by man’s law) then it’s compatible with Christianity. I’ve had people like this argue with me that homosexuality is ok because the two men or women love each other. But if they truly loved each other they wouldn’t want each other to violate God’s Word, so whatever these practicing homosexuals have, it’s not love. Love wants what is best for the other person according to 1 Corinthians 13. Going against God, or trusting their own judgment over God’s judgment, is never loving. God is love. So if God says don’t do something then whatever He says not to do, is bad for you. Plus Jesus said in the Gospel of John that whosoever loves Him will keep His commandments. You can’t live in sin and love Jesus. Sin is disobedience to God. And Jesus made it clear that whosoever lives in disobedience to God does not love God.

Anyway, the question that I’m asking wistfully, is wouldn’t it be wonderful if there were denominations that based on the clear teaching of Scripture, were pro nudity, masturbation, and one man/one woman porn! Imagine churches all across the country, or world even, where, you could talk openly about these things. I know many people are afraid to even question whether these things are right or wrong. Why all the fear, the Bible will never lead us wrong. We can always trust God. None of us can figure life out on our own, We need God’s Word.

I bet if that ever happens then we can finally have Christian Porn, where only married heterosexual (sad you have clarify that today) couples create Christian porn, opened Christian Strip Clubs with a wholesome and fun environment (look but don’t touch; strippers are treated with dignity and respect; no getting drunk or speaking rudely, etc).

Am I way off base here?