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If Women Loved Sexuality

 

Do you ever wonder?… What if women loved sexuality as much as men? A woman’s entire life is consumed with looking good; smelling yummy; sounding sensual (what woman wants to sound like Janice from “Friends”); tasting Truly Scrumptious (thank you Ian Fleming); and feeling sexy. Think of all the billions spent on lingerie alone? sexy panties; enticing bras; form fitting nighties. Think of a woman’s thought life; Buying clothes that make them feel pretty; that make them feel desirable; picking out that perfect shade of lipstick; counting calories.

The whole essence of femininity is invitation and beauty. How many Christian men have read “Wild at Heart”? Do you know what the female counterpart is?… “Captivating” by John’s wife Stasi. The number one desire question of a man’s heart is “Do I have what it takes?” The number one desire of a woman’s heart is “Am I captivating?”

Think of how much time, money and thought goes into this piercing desire? Women are known for wanting to have that perfect perfume; that dress that makes them feel sexy; those shoes that showcase her calves.

Yet, do you ever wonder why? Women are notoriously unsexual. The only women famous, as it were, for being sexual, are women desiring to win a man’s heart, through fornication. How many jokes or quips have you heard in your life that revolve around women losing all desire for sex once a ring goes on her finger. After this huge day is made all about her (any grooms out there ever felt that your wedding had almost nothing to do with you?)bordering on idolatry, this huge costly romantic affair is made of the perfect wedding. After all this huge ordeal is made; after all the time and effort spent pursuing a woman’s heart in romance, women seem hardwired to abandon sexuality once married.

Now my wife is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, so for years I thought that maybe that was the reason for her lack of sexual spark? But my entire life, I’ve never heard of one, just one, sexually thrilled husband. Sometimes there is a honeymoon period. But after the honeymoon is over and God forbid, children (who are awesome btw, don’t blame kids ladies), do you know of any married woman who is sensual; full of life; and sexually erotic. Many times single women give off this sexually erotic vibe, but married women seem almost devoid of it. It’s almost if the word, “tease”, was created to singularly describe the whole of femininity alone.

I’ve spent years now questioning, “Why?” I don’t have one female subscriber to my blog. I used to try to put more pictures of naked men on my blog, before I erased years of my work a year or so ago (long story). None of the people who grace my blog are female. Honestly, I try to stay away from this question too much, because it’s a real buzz kill, but every once in a while I have to question God, “Why?!”

I won’t even justify the accusatory remarks that can come with such honest questions. I’m also a hopeless romantic. That’s why my username is “loverofpassion” and my icon is a sensual kiss. I won’t bore you with all my years pursuing my wife’s heart with romance, jewelry, dates, getaways, and yes, even reading many books on marriage and romance. But almost without fail, every book on the subject leads you to believe that everything rides on us men (and unfortunately, I don’t mean in the literal sense). After awhile, I want to read a book that actually tells women to “do” something in marriage. I’m talking in the romantic and sexual sense, because almost all Christians books that tell women to “do” anything in marriage, tells them to be a better maid. The “Proverbs 31 woman” is held up as the pinnacle of Christian femininity. God help us! I’d rather have the “Song of Solomon” any day, hands down, and other things up. You can say what you will about Solomon’s, almost a thousand, wives and concubines (the good old days), but God choose his book to speak to the whole body of Christ, as the only one that does so exclusively on sensuality, sexuality and romance.

Anyway, why are all nude magazines (I think 100% now that Playgirl went online only, due to lack of female sexuality. And to be honest, it’s probably kept going online even by homosexual men if truth be told) sold to men? The most sensual a woman allows herself to become is by reading a novel. Where is the disconnect?

What would the world look like if your wife loved your cock as much as men deep in their hearts desired their wives too? What would life be like, if your wife loved the taste of your cum? What if she actually liked your body? I mean really liked your body, like any man only dreams of? What if the bookshelves and internet were filled with naked men magazines and pornography that woman actually not only enjoyed but longed for. Remember when you were a teenage boy, and you were first becoming aware of sexuality? What if women actually were what we all hoped they were?! This beautiful desirable naughty sexual creature? What if “sex nymph” actually described your wife?

When almost all of a woman’s world world seems to revolve around garnering our attention, what if they actually knew what to do with it, once they obtained it?