Do you share the same Biblical worldview as your spouse about the enjoyment of nudity, masturbation and pornography?
Sometimes I have heard of non-Christian couples having somewhat similar views but I don’t believe that I’ve heard of one Christian couple sharing the same worldview regarding the Bible and pornography.
There’s a classic sex disorientation among men and women in the first place. Most men that I know do not share my views expressed on this blog, much less the women that I know.
Unfortunately, the Bible is just an excuse for most Christian women to use as a tool for attempting to tame the wildness that is more characteristic of a man’s heart.
In one of the most disturbing stories that I’ve ever heard… one of the only cousins that I have who is a Christian… was bragging about finding her good hearted husband watching porn… and how she dealt so harshly with him… that he became suicidal. She ended the story with the coldest “chuckle”, I may have ever heard. She was very proud of herself, you could tell. This is beyond appalling to me, but it echoes other sentiments that I’ve heard from Christian women over the years.
A man daring to find other women remotely attractive is met with the coldest most icy displays of pride, arrogance and utter cruelty and contempt. This is nothing “like Christ”, and it’s obviously a deplorable sinful attitude that is haughty and condescending. It’s no wonder many Good men are often beaten down in shame by just existing as God Himself designed us… to find the opposite sex beautiful and attractive.
Men do NOT need to divorce their hearts from being sexually alive. Women NEED to come alive to sexuality and step up and pursue their own husbands much much more passionately sexually.
There’s something off in the heart of a woman when the only desire that sex brings out in her…is the ungodly desire to “control” or “manipulate”. This is an ungodly desire that needs to be confronted from our pulpits!
Women need to repent of haughtiness and pride (things that the Bible actually and clearly condemns), and pray for God to help them “come alive” sexually to and with their husbands.
A strong sex desire is the gift from our Wild and Loving Creator and a wise woman will appreciate the wild sexuality of a man’s heart and do everything in her power to entice, excite and enjoy the Man that God has blessed her with.
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