The difference between the Act of Sex and sexual acts

The Act of Sex

I find there’s a good deal of confusion between the Act of Marriage or the Act of Sex and “sexual acts”.

The Act of Sex is simply when a man and a woman have vaginal sex. This is the actual Act of Sex. Without this act of the man penetrating his wife with his penis, No marriage is complete. If a couple doesn’t consummate their marriage, usually on the wedding night, then it is possible to have a marriage annulled – like the ceremony never happened.

Many cultures would wait outside the room, after a wedding, and check the sheets to verify (by the breaking of the hymen and subsequent bleeding) that the act of Marriage had taken place.

Technically, a true marriage covenant, requires BOTH a public ceremony of lifelong commitment before God and man AND The Act of Marriage (vaginal intercourse). This Act is only possible between One Man and One Woman.

This seems to be a prominent source of confusion in our day. However, the Act of Sex (or Marriage) is always considered the joining together of the penis and the vagina. Whereas sexual acts include all other forms of touching genitals with another person or animal (bestiality…gross!).

Whereas, sexual acts are ANY kind of healthy OR sinful sexual act that involves a penis or a vagina to contact any other human (or even animal). Sexual acts include oral sex, simply touching the sexual organ of another human being, anal sex, hand jobs, as well as the always deviant homosexual acts, bestiality, molestation, rape, etc.

This is a very important distinction and very important to remember.

sexual acts

When was the first time you saw a naked person of the opposite sex in person?

The first time I saw a mostly naked woman (no clothes except panties) was at a local strip club called Peaches in Valdosta, Georgia.

It took all the courage I could muster to even go in the darkened doors to the club. My heart was racing. I didn’t know what to expect at a strip club.

I had recently searched the scriptures about viewing nudity and couldn’t find any commands to “look the other way” regarding nudity or sex. Still… I was so nervous and excited in a way that is somewhat rare in life.

I remember seeing the dancers on the stage and it was utterly intoxicating… Seeing a naked woman is the most exciting thing in this life outside of my relationship with Jesus. I actually imagined Him sitting with me, because I was still new in my beliefs and didn’t want to go anywhere that He wouldn’t go with me. That really comforted me because as much as I love naked women, I love Him so much more as a Christian.

I don’t remember the girls dancing on the stage as much as I remember one of the girls who was walking around talking drink orders… she had never put her top back on and I was entranced to not only see this woman’s legs and soft feminine arms but her breasts called to the deep places in my heart…. here was beauty… here was romance…. here was Eros walking amongst mere mortals

I don’t remember many details as the years pass, but I remember this goddess walking around and her bare breasts so close that I could feel eternity beckon from the deep primal places in the heart that God had placed in my chest…. such pure intoxication…. such ecstasy to just “behold” raw beauty….beauty that pierces my heart and soul to this day…